Acceptable Use Policy
The conduct required across profiles, messages, dates arranged through the service, and Community.
Be genuine
Use your own identity and current photos. Do not impersonate, catfish, misrepresent relationship intentions, falsify verification, run coordinated accounts, or conceal a commercial purpose.
Respect sobriety and recovery
No recovery gatekeeping, stigma, diagnosis, pressured disclosure, unsolicited treatment claims, promotion of dangerous detox practices, instructions for abusing substances, or attempts to buy or sell controlled substances. You may discuss lived experience without presenting it as universal medical advice.
No abuse or exploitation
Harassment, threats, stalking, coercion, hate, sexual exploitation, trafficking, doxxing, extortion, blackmail, non-consensual intimate imagery, and sexual content involving minors are prohibited.
No scams or platform abuse
No financial solicitation, romance scams, investment pitches, spam, malware, scraping, automated account creation, bulk messaging, ranking manipulation, credential sharing, security testing without written authorization, or enforcement evasion.
Age and lawful use
All participants must be 18 or older. Do not use the service where prohibited by law, arrange illegal transactions, or publish content you do not have a lawful right to share.
Enforcement
We may remove content, reduce distribution, add friction, restrict features, suspend or terminate accounts, preserve evidence, and make legally required reports. Severity, context, history, credible risk, and appeal evidence inform enforcement.